tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4555494885427182657.post8122133073630789932..comments2023-03-20T07:17:57.272-07:00Comments on DNA Diaries: Would a Committment Make a Difference?Lori Ahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16941584141149840911noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4555494885427182657.post-70609485627371376982009-05-23T12:32:14.648-07:002009-05-23T12:32:14.648-07:00Hey Lori & Rachel,
Mmm. I'm back and lovi...Hey Lori & Rachel,<br />Mmm. I'm back and loving this discussion. My *guess* is that there is often some expectation that an adoptee will just want to satisfy curiousity. But once the contact is made (I guess again)often times emotions erupt that had not been anticipated and all kinds of desires for some form of an ongoing relationship show up.Being Mehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18191598836451286017noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4555494885427182657.post-41682483991117228982009-05-03T09:26:00.000-07:002009-05-03T09:26:00.000-07:00just out of curosity, is there alot of reunions th...just out of curosity, is there alot of reunions that are nothing more than satisfying curosity and moving on? i understand the whole wanting to find your nose, your smile, your flintstone feet (thanx lori)and things like that. things that you can see in the mirror. but it never crossed my mind to see her and walk away. <br />i was prepared to let it go if it didnt work out. the last thing i needed was another toxic relationship, even if it was a parent, but is there truly alot that have a f2f and then part ways?rachaelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10527083471146369724noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4555494885427182657.post-4108869053095114942009-05-03T08:51:00.000-07:002009-05-03T08:51:00.000-07:00A committment would make a huge difference for me....A committment would make a huge difference for me...I am acting just as you did, holding back, waiting for the bottom to fall out. I think I could get past that with just a little reassurance that this is a permanent relationship.maybehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07067284504038707207noreply@blogger.com